Can safer sex be sexy?

[Carlos (in the Moment)]

Ricky and I have been..."experimenting" with ways of spicing up things in the bedroom. For a variety of reasons, we've chosen to keep using condoms even though we're in a relationship. Is it possible to have hot sex and still use protection?

[David]

Condoms suck. Can't we just get a cure or vaccine or something?

[Kevin]

I have the hottest sex with my man and we use condoms. Things are still new and exciting so there is no need to experiment yet, but I think we'd be down with a pizza boy fantasy. However, the use of rape as a fantasy in this episode is disturbing and not remotely sexy.

[Winston]

I think the important thing is that Carlos & Ricky are still using protection, no matter what the fantasy.

[Pete]

i agree with winston. exploring your fantasy life in a safe way with a loving partner is awesome. if you find ways to increase your arousal and stay safe at the same time, more power to you.

[SADIO]

I met a straight man, a very nice guy. He wanted experiment with another guy, and he chose me. I showed him how sexy and fun condoms were! We used flavored condoms for oral sex...and we had anul sex with many condoms. I showed him how to "feel" with a condom on, by showing him that putting lube inside the condom then on his d**k head made it possible for him to "feel" everything!!! We had fun, but he moved to anotherr state. I miss him!!!

[Frankie Callahan]

In a way.. I mean it is a worry that you don't need. It also takes away the pressure. I know with me, if I was going to not use protection I would need to make sure it was with someone that I really cared about and most likely would want to spend the rest of my life (or hoped I would spend the rest of my life) with. There is so much risk that I don't think I could do that with someone unless it was extremely serious. I would never forgive myself if I got an STD or anything, because I was more interested in pleasure than the future. It could possibly ruin my life, so I don't believe it is worth the risk.